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Delivered By
Pastor Bob Petersen and Pastor Andy Boswell
Delivered On
October 4, 2015
  1. Do we need others to speak into our lives
  2. What are the repercussions of not allowing someone to speak into our lives
  3. What is gained by others speaking into my life?
  4. Who gets to speak into our lives
  5. How to handle a word into my life

If I said to you that there was a dysfunction in you that had a 100% chance of keeping you out of heaven, would you want me to tell you? How about 50%? 20%? 10%?

We are blind because of bondage, sin & ignorance of God’s ways and our heavenly Father is trying to speak to us to advance us.

There's a healthy growth process where a natural fail and learn process because of age takes place.

  • Then there's stunted growth where people $$ by this time should be.... but something is hindering growth and development.
  • Lawlessness combined with a lack of discipline are common today
    • This requires exterior input

3 base pulls, Fear, Lust & Anger, must be evaluated to see if they are influencing us in a negative way.

When something goes wrong some believe they are losers destined to lose and internalize it causing them to not look for answers

  • With me, when something goes bad I know I’m a successful winner and if I can know why I’ll change it and succeed.

Andy: “God, if there’s anything that will keep me from becoming what You’ve created and called me to be show me”

Ephesians 5:15-21 NKJV 15 See then that you walk circumspectly, not as fools but as wise, 16 redeeming the time, because the days are evil. 17 Therefore do not be unwise, but understand what the will of the Lord is.  18 And do not be drunk with wine, in which is dissipation; but be filled with the Spirit, 19 speaking to one another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs, singing and making melody in your heart to the Lord, 20 giving thanks always for all things to God the Father in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21 submitting to one another in the fear of God.

Does a coach point out the areas that need improvement?

  1. I won’t be able to give a perfect model that can work in every situation but to open us to be receptive to our Father’s voice trying to reach us.

Our circumstances need to teach us.

  • We can’t be beat up about losing, we need to find out why we lost.

Video: Kris Vallotton “How to stay out of deception”

Andy: “What do they have to gain from what they’re telling me?”

1 Corinthians 13:9-12 AMP 9 For our knowledge is fragmentary (incomplete and imperfect), and our prophecy (our teaching) is fragmentary (incomplete and imperfect). 10 But when the complete and perfect (total) comes, the incomplete and imperfect will vanish away (become antiquated, void, and superseded). 11 When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child; now that I have become a man, I am done with childish ways and have put them aside. 12 For now we are looking in a mirror that gives only a dim (blurred) reflection [of reality as in a riddle or enigma], but then [when perfection comes] we shall see in reality and face to face! Now I know in part (imperfectly), but then I shall know and understand fully and clearly, even in the same manner as I have been fully and clearly known and understood [by God].

What causes us to not want to be accountable to others?

  1. Wounded by a “word” from someone
  2. Pride
  3. Low self-image
  4. I don’t trust their intent for me

Our will center must be broken and submitted

  1. This does not mean our spirit is to be broken.

The entrance and accountability to prophetic

Andy – accountable to Christie’s prophetic word

  1. We suffer hardship when we don’t listen to the Father’s voice

Time for the allowance of Judas is near.

$$ God spoke through a donkey

Can God use who He wants to speak to you?

If we refuse the truth we deepen deception

2 Thessalonians 2:7-12 NKJV 7 For the mystery of lawlessness is already at work; only He who now restrains will do so until He is taken out of the way. 8 And then the lawless one will be revealed, whom the Lord will consume with the breath of His mouth and destroy with the brightness of His coming. 9 The coming of the lawless one is according to the working of Satan, with all power, signs, and lying wonders, 10 and with all unrighteous deception among those who perish, because they did not receive the love of the truth, that they might be saved. 11 And for this reason God will send them strong delusion, that they should believe the lie, 12 that they all may be condemned who did not believe the truth but had pleasure in unrighteousness.

You're broken,  hurt,  or whatever. NOBODY CARES.

  • Whenever you look to anyone to get you free or healed you'll never get it.
  • God has and will put people in your life to agitate, care for and speak into your life.
    • But these are to only bring you to the cross to crucify you.
  • If you're looking for someone else you will eventually say that nobody cares because they can't go to the cross for you.
  • If they're right they'll try to get you to the cross and you'll run and still say nobody cares and everyone is against you.
    • They could have talked for hours but you're looking for someone to hold you and not heal you.
    • To heal you they need to pull back the bandaid and start cleaning the dirt  (unforgiveness. Flesh. Dried blood from the wound) wound.
      • This is where you cry that they don't care.
  • When people can't heal you. People can't wound you.

~ Demons will either get mad or cry to get us to back off when confronted ~


To those who give words of accountability it isn’t up to you to enforce the word.

  1. When we give someone a word we should give them a solution when possible.

2 Samuel 16:5-13 NAS 5 When King David came to Bahurim, behold, there came out from there a man of the family of the house of Saul whose name was Shimei, the son of Gera; he came out cursing continually as he came. 6 He threw stones at David and at all the servants of King David; and all the people and all the mighty men were at his right hand and at his left. 7 Thus Shimei said when he cursed, "Get out, get out, you man of bloodshed, and worthless fellow! 8 "The Lord has returned upon you all the bloodshed of the house of Saul, in whose place you have reigned; and the Lord has given the kingdom into the hand of your son Absalom. And behold, you are taken in your own evil, for you are a man of bloodshed!"

9 Then Abishai the son of Zeruiah said to the king, "Why should this dead dog curse my lord the king? Let me go over now and cut off his head." 10 But the king said, "What have I to do with you, O sons of Zeruiah? If he curses, and if the Lord has told him, 'Curse David,' then who shall say, 'Why have you done so?'" 11 Then David said to Abishai and to all his servants, "Behold, my son who came out from me seeks my life; how much more now this Benjamite? Let him alone and let him curse, for the Lord has told him. 12 "Perhaps the Lord will look on my affliction and return good to me instead of his cursing this day."

Psalms 139:23-24 KJV 23 Search me, O God, and know my heart: try me, and know my thoughts: 24 And see if there be any wicked way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.

Andy: Is anything they’ve brought to me true even if they didn’t bring it in love.

Jesus corrected every one of His disciples

There were places that He couldn’t confront because of their strong self-will, fleshly strongholds and areas of demonic intrusion.

He even told them that $$ He had many things to say to them but they couldn’t hear it.

But there came a time where Jesus had to remove the voice that would not be trained and would have weakened the other disciples

Accountability to each other will cause us to grow quickly where growth has been slow.

Demonic intrusion, fleshly strongholds, self-will will be challenged and broken as we allow other’s to speak into our lives

Andy: Christie’s word of how God confronted Judas in him

How to receive something from someone:

  1. Someone I trust says something I don’t see
  2. God has already prepared me for the word
    • Never apply a word without confirmation before or after the word.

Lori Brenneman: Either into the wilderness or the belly of the whale.

Cody Gaines vision of helping the hurt man – THEY must participate.

Are you born again?

Born again is selling completely out to the Father’s will and purposes.